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Design Your Own Relationship

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If you are looking for love and tired of having disasterous relationships, why not try designing your own ideal relationship using something that has been proven to work time and time again.

The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like and when it comes to relationships there is no better law to use. If you want to attract love into your life then one thing is for sure, you need to be 100% sure about exactly what you want. What type of man or woman do you want to attract? What qualities should they have? What type of a relationship do you want?

The key to getting this right and making this law work for you is to believe. You also have to make sure that you don’t focus on attracting anyone in particular. You have to remember that we all have what is called free will so the other person has to want to be in a relationship with you too. There are so many people who try to use the Law of Attraction to get their ex’s back but they forget that the other person has free. You need to be detached when it comes to the person you want to attract.

You should make a list of all the things you want in a partner, all the qualities you would like that person to have and all the things you would like in your relationship. Once you have your list created the next step is to practice visualizing that you already have this. You should spend at least five minutes each day visualizing your relationship and your dream partner. You need to be able to feel the feelings and emotions associated with having this relationship. You should actually believe that you already have it.

There is another part to using the Law of Attraction for relationships and that is to remain detached from the outcome. You have to really believe that you will receive what you are asking for but you also have to ensure that you are not focusing on the lack of a relationship in your life. You have to ensure that you are detached from how this relationship will come about and you have to be prepared to take some action too. If you get an intuitive nudge to go to the store or the mall then follow this nudge. Your new partner could be waiting for you there.

The Law of Attraction really does work but you have to take some action too. Your ideal partner is not going to arrive on your doorstep just because you have made a list. You have to make sure that your life is ready also. If you are looking for a long term partner do you have room for them in your life and your home. Do you have a space in your wardrobe? Do you have room in your bed? These are things that you need to address also.

If you want to the perfect relationship, why not design it yourself with the help of the Law of Attraction.



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By Amanda J Evans on September 03, 2010 at 04:07 am

Thanks Melody for the comment. I am a big believer in the Law of Attraction and have used it very successfully for a number of things. I haven't used it to attract a particular relationship but I have used it to make my existing one better. I made a list of all the things I would like to have in my relationship and visualized us doing them. I had great results.

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By LiftingMeUp on September 05, 2010 at 11:07 am

VERY interesting article. Neat concept! :)

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By Lumiere on September 10, 2010 at 03:08 pm

"The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like..." I find this an interesting statement because based on this philosophy in my experience, opposites attract to me. I am the artsy, creative type and it is usually; attorneys, corporate CEO / entrepreneur types and powerful people that others are intimidated by...and for some strange reason... jewelers who like me. Very rarely in my life have I dated other creative people...with the exception of a musician or two.

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By Amanda J Evans on September 12, 2010 at 03:05 am

@Lumiere, I think the statement, "Like attracts Like" relates to the thoughts and emotions that you hold. If you are holding negative thoughts then you will attract more negative thoughts, if you are positive you will attract more things to be positive about.

I would think that you have relationships with people who are opposite you because these are the qualities that you are subconsciously looking for. The Law of Attraction is quite indepth and would be very hard to explain all the concepts in a comment.

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By Jon Hosier on October 19, 2010 at 09:48 am

thank you for an insightful post.

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