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Caught Up!

A woman gets involved with a married man and a child is conceived.

So their is this girl and she met this guy online on one of those dating sites... They became good friends and decided they were going to meet. The guy called the girl up one day and told her some shocking news that he was married and the girl was like ok we can just be friends. The guy doesn't live in the same state as the girl and she figured they'd never meet. Time went on and they grew closer and closer talking on the phone everyday. Well guess what....They finally met and he came down to where she lived and stayed the weekend with her. They had a blast it was like they had knew each other for years. At the most it was all innocent fun and he returned home. Well they continued to talk and talk until finally he came down to visit her again within the same month. Once again they had fun and chilled and he went home the next day..

Through all this time neither of them were expecting to be faced with such a dilema. She called him up a few weeks later and told him she was pregnant. He was very upset and his first reply to her was that she could not keep the baby and he went on and on how it was wrong to keep the child etc...etc. Days upon days they talked about this issue with him willing to pay for an abortion but this was something the girl did not believe in. She told him that she would not bother him and would raise the child alone but for him this was out of the question.. The answer was abortion or nothing. Well finally the girl told him she was keeping the baby and he became furious and told her he never wanted to speak to her again and that she had made the worst decision in her lifetime. The girl was highly upset and lost and had no one to turn to seeing how the guy she was pregnant from wanted to dissapear from the scene. Weeks and weeks went by and she sent him an ultrasound picture via email and he called her and asked her what the picture was all about. They argued and she asked him if he would be willing to sign over his parental rights and he said no. They argued somemore and then the conversation was ended. She has not talked to the guy in going on a month and she is currently 5months pregnant. I wanted to get some insight on this and see what everyone thinks about the situation. Whats wrong with the man how can he walk away from his child? What do you think the outcome will be? What should the girl do in this situation?



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By manny osborne on September 30, 2009 at 02:12 pm

Is the girl old enough to take care of the child, I mean can she take care of the child, looks to me she is not responsable enough cause she is having sex without protection

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By Scented_Roses on October 05, 2009 at 10:49 am

The girl is old enough to care for a child. The girl currently has one child already.

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By manny osborne on October 05, 2009 at 09:38 pm

well all I can say is, second baby and many more to come, like I said she is not responsable enough.

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By PATRICK PETION on May 06, 2010 at 09:33 pm

well I hope she did make the right decision and keep the child. then she can hope to have a real man who really care about her and love her for who she is. it can happen. forget about the looser.

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By Betty B. on January 11, 2012 at 09:17 am

she is right not to have the abortion..why would he even want parental rights if he told her to have a abortion?

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By Credo on December 29, 2013 at 03:44 am

This of course is a very difficult situation for all involved, with extenuating circumstances. It was extremely immoral and irresponsible for them to even consider meeting one another let alone having unprotected sex, when one already has a baby and the other is already married. So the fault lies with both parties.

Considering the confused circumstances, there isn't much that can be done, except to deal with the consequences of their actions. In the end the child will suffer the most; Isn't that the way it always end?

:)Credo

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