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Love Or Let Go

by Scented_Roses (writer), North Carolina, February 16, 2009

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A day in the life of women who struggle to find what they really want from a man and end up choosing the wrong man as a life partner.

I have been talking with this young lady that has been in a relationship with this man for five years. She is 22 and he is 25 their is a child involved that is 5 years of age but the guy is not the father. The biological father died when the child was 1 years of age. This woman is head over heels in love with this man and wants to be with him forever. They recently have been separated for 6 months but have been getting back together off and on. The guy continues to cheat and be with other women that aren't about anything and on welfare. The first lady however is doing well for herself. She has a good job two cars and is very self-sufficient. Why is it that men go back and forth between women and are not satisfied with just one partner? This woman is completely heart broken and doesn't know where to pick up the pieces in her life and is having trouble moving on. She is awaiting his return but for what? To repeat the cycle of unfaithfulness? What should she do. How does she express herself to him since crying is not the solution. What makes a man behave in such a manner. Love is built up and broke down and it seems that women get hurt more than the men do.. Maybe it is in the genetic makeup or maybe women are just to emotional I am puzzled by all this myself and would like some feedback from men and women as to how they view the situation and a possible solution to this ongoing problem. Why must men and women constantly hurt each other? In situations of love why is it so hard for people to pick up the pieces and move on.



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By manny osborne on February 22, 2009 at 04:14 pm

Well she needs to be smarter, but hey maybe She loves guys that treat her like crap, she needs help, professional help, cause if the guy doesn't come back she is going to end with another guy that is going to do the same. and she is 22 yo with a 5 yo kid?.

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By Betty B. on February 10, 2012 at 07:57 am

wonderful

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By Tiffany Sanders on January 20, 2013 at 11:34 pm

If your timeline is accurate, this woman got pregnant at 16, had a baby at 17, met this "great love" either while she was pregnant or minutes after the child was born, lost the father of her child to death around the time she was 18 and has been in this destructive relationship ever since. She's obviously never had a chance to mature, learn anything about herself, develop self-esteem, etc...and never will as long as she chooses to stay in this cycle. The answer isn't a better man, it's learning who she is before trying to find someone who's a good match for that person.

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