marry me you slut!

So the sect of polygamists has been insulted, destroyed and families broken apart over some choices some people made.  I don't get it?  So if hugh heffner's playboy bunnies were to legally have some say in their arrangement with Mr. H. like patrimony or alimony it would be a benefit to be seen with the viagra viking himself.  But he can do as he can or wants because there aren't any laws saying how many lovers or service submissives you can have.  Yet our laws govern that you can only have one lover, and one service submissive, if you legally commit to her by marriage.   Hmmm, I aint stoopid, sounds like a bum deal to me.  So the polygamists took the high road and called there extra lovers wives, families, and partners. Being honest to the other lovers, wives, families and partners. they are in jail now and condemmed to shame.  Where as the top playboy, brings in millions of dollars for bringing so called monogamously coupled families, their magazines and parties in which they can lie, cheat, and carry on secretly about their affairs, behaviors, and fixations.   Hmmm, I have seen polyamory in action, I have participated in it myself.  My conclusion, more people appreciate a person who is honest about their behaviors and prefer to have the choice to participate in such a lifestyle, than to be lied to and disregarded as a victim of such deceit.  My next conclusion, is that if someone is that good in life, or in bed, why should there be a limit on how many people they can be with,  it takes a villiage to raise a child, why not a villiage to create diversity and happiness, we are meant to be happy, intimacy, love, and sex are ways to express that happiness. why limit yourself?  Those of you who ascribe to a religious belief that excludes you from freely expressing a true expression of yourself with a fellow adult of the consenting age and same desire, well, good onya, more for those  who rather be truthful about what they need and want rather than hide what they are and what they perceive to be an honest expression of love and attraction with an open mind.  It is not easy being honest, but it is better than being dishonest.  I believe in monogamy for those who truly believe it is their nature and for the highest good. I also believe there are choices for those who are just made to be non monogamous for whatever reasons.  Honesty is the story here.