I know many of you may read this and not agree with me. But I know in my own life, this is what works for me. I refuse to walk around with bitterness, anger, or negativity of any kind.
It is easier, in my humble opinion, to bless someone than to harm them....if someone betrays you, pray for them....you want to change it, pray for them...pray for 5 minutes for their happiness for 30 days...because this is what alchemy is , this is what it is... any magical power or process of transmuting a common substance, usually of little value, into a substance of great value. Basically what it is telling us is to turn a negative into a positive or something of value.
Your greatest power to change the world is to change your mind....because all minds are joined...there is really no place where I stop and you begin....now if I pray one of two things will happen...either they will change OR I will not care...in the beginning it is hard, but is it easy to sit there with the anger, the bitterness, the toxicity...what's hard is sitting there with anger and bitterness rotting away at your soul. It is even harder, because in the end, , you attract what you put out onto yourself. Anger will beget more anger. It really is so much better to bless them than to blame them. When it first happens that you feel hurt or betrayed, this may not be possible to do This is when I will pray to be given the strength to let the anger be transformed into a blessing ; for both myself and the person this hurt came from.
The universe is self correcting, so if anyone did anything to harm me, the universe is already on it..... the universe has a way of making sure that I get whatever it is that person took away from me ....this is the principal of Divine Compensation. A spiritual belief that I put great faith in. If my heart is closed, I will not be able to receive the miraculous new possibility that the universe is bringing. It is held in trust for me until I am able to receive it...so as long as I keep my heart open, the universe will just find another vessel...it is there in the universe, and whatever love is yours, it is what is intended. Just like the embryo turns into a baby, or a bud blossoms, it is there because your life was programed for you long before you were even born......God knows what he intended for you... so, you may ask does it even matter what I do ?
Yes, it matters, and is the difference between living a blessed life or a life wasted on negativity. Life is like a file on a computer, because if my heart is not open, I do not even download the possibility....(on earth as it is in heaven)...if I sit in bitterness, what I will get is bitterness...(it means it is not even on the screen because I have not downloaded it ) If it is not even a file on the computer, you can not access it...This is why I will always bless as opposed to blame. It may take me sometime to get to this, but I do know it is what I will need to do to find peace within myself.
Copyright © 2012 Barbara MacDonald