The reason why women are often associated to the hobby of shopping is because over the years, the market has opened up and welcomed more women customers than men. Not only is this caused by the amount of women overall that is deemed to be more than men, but the truth is, women require more than men. They are a creature of beauty and it is therefore a natural consequence that one would preserve beauty both from outside and within. The following are ways to keep your women happy, as a true gentleman.
Dress to impress
What is meant by dressing to impress is to appreciate your lady by looking your best for every meet. This doesn’t have to change who you are, but is meant to make them feel appreciated. You can easily tell that someone is making an effort to look nice for a special event like a cocktail party or a meet up after a long time, from the accessories they wear and more. Anyone appreciates this gesture, they will too. This is to emphasize the casual and common tendency for people to become more and more accustomed to each other that they forget to try to be the best for the significant other. Just because you have been together for many years, you should never quit trying to impress her. She deserves it!
Honesty is the best policy
There is a saying that goes, the truth hurts only once but a lie hurts every time you remember it. If you don’t want to hurt their feelings, it is always best to tell the truth. After all, honesty is the best policy. Being honest allows both of you to explore each other’s feelings, get to know the other and keep the love strong.
Courtesy and manner
Not every woman likes having the door opened for them, having their hands held as they crossing the street, or having their chairs pulled out at the restaurant for them. At times, all three can happen in a single sequence! However, being persistent with manner is the crucial. At one point this will truly flatter them. There will also be times when you need to be spontaneous and make gestures of romance even when she is unsure about it. Be the man and take the initiative. A deep glance as she tells you about her day or her thoughts, a comforting hug if she has gone through a rough time or simply a pat on her back to soothe her, these never fail to make her heart melt.
Being a gentleman is not hard. You don’t need to be James Bond to show your loved one that you care. Every man has it in him to protect their loved ones and make them happy. All you need to do is build your intuition and you will learn to see why men and women are meant to be together. Working on a relationship is not as hard as you think. It only takes a pure heart to make it work.