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Happy Christmas to all, and to all a Goodnight

by Anastasia (writer), London, December 21, 2012

Credit: Cambridge Pagan Society
The Spirit of the Season
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It's time to lose ourselves in the spirit of the season. I am - come Yule, come Christmas.

Has a year really gone past? It seems no time at all since last Christmas. Time is relative, of course. I can still remember when the intervals between one festive season and another seemed like an eternity. Now the chariot of Chronos, the god of time, is speeding up, a sign, I take it, that I am getting older, now over a quarter century!

Christmas, Yule Tide, the Winter Solstice, call it what you will, I love the whole season. It’s the time when I am at my most reactionary, when my love for continuity, tradition and the past becomes strongest. It’s a time when Christian and Pagan unite in greenery, mistletoe, holly, burning logs and ancient ritual; a time the dark closes around the celebration of light.

It’s a time for re-reading Hilaire Belloc’s wonderful essay A Remaining Christmas given to me when I was a child by my much beloved grandfather, a treasured memory both of him and of times past. Belloc writes with such conviction, with such moving reverence of the setting of his own celebrations, now long gone;

This house where such good things are done year by year has suffered all the things that every age has suffered. It has known the sudden separation of wife and husband, the sudden fall of young men under arms who will never more come home, the scattering of the living, and their precarious return, the increase and the loss of fortune, all those terrors and all those lessenings and haltings and failures of hope which make up the life of man. But its Christmas binds it to its own past and promises its future; making the house an undying thing of which those subject to mortality within it are members, sharing in its continuous survival.

On Sunday I will be joining family and friends at our old house in the country, away from all distractions; away from garish city lights and garish city people. Yes, there is a television, but on Christmas Day it only ever goes on for the Queen’s Speech. Otherwise our tradition is to ignore the dreadful idol, whose votaries sit around in dumb amazement, gaping at its even dumber antics. We have fun, a simple celebration of family, of close friends, of conversation, games and frolics aplenty; cocktails, good food, and always punch or mulled wine to see in Christmas Day. The Lord of Misrule still presides over our Feast of Fools!

On Saint Stephen’s Day mother, father and I will all be out on the local hunt. Two days later I leave with a party of friends on my annual skiing holiday. So, this is goodbye and farewell until we meet again in antechambers of the year to come.

I wish for you the Christmas I wish for myself: one of simple contentment, however it takes you. The past slips away; the future calls us on.



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8 comments on Happy Christmas to all, and to all a Goodnight

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By HomeRearedChef on December 21, 2012 at 12:03 pm

Anastasia, what a beautiful post you've written. And the video with the music is simply soothing, easy listening. Thank you!

I am still rather new to BrooWaha, but I have been following your post. It is very nice to get to know you. :)

Happy Christmas to you and yours! ~Virginia

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By Barbara MacDonald on December 21, 2012 at 01:39 pm

Wishing you a blessed and happy holiday Ana,,, sounds wonderful and thank you for your warm wishes...:-)

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By melanie jean juneau on December 22, 2012 at 01:24 pm

What lovely traditions. We also live in the country, only on 7 acres but surrounded by fields, a creek and trees which are covered with heavy, brilliant white snow. Perfect for holidays

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By Angie Alaniz on January 05, 2013 at 02:30 am

AND HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

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By Anastasia on January 06, 2013 at 05:21 pm

Thanks, Virginia, and a Happy New Year. :-)

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By Anastasia on January 06, 2013 at 05:21 pm

To you too, Barbara. :-)

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By Anastasia on January 06, 2013 at 05:22 pm

Indeed so, Melanie

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By Anastasia on January 06, 2013 at 05:22 pm

Happy New Year to you too, Angie. This is me back in action. :-)

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