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encountering the divine in the mundane

Maybe interruptions are actually your real work!

Once Henri Nouwen S.J. (Jesuit author, university prof) complained to God about all the students who came to his office, interrupting his writing of an important book. God’s answer?

“I just gave you that book to write to keep you busy in between appointments; your real work is all those interruptions."

No matter what our occupation, we tend to think that our work, our agenda is important. It is almost in our nature to let ambition and drive push other people to the fringes of our awareness while we toil in an isolated bubble of self-importance. There are many methods that can shake us out of this selfish obsession but for me as a mother, it was my children.

"Mum, mum! Come see what I made!"

"Can you read me a book?"

"I tried and tried but it just won't stay together."

"Mum, can we talk?"

"Would you help me edit this essay? It's due tomorrow."

"Let's do something together."

Of course sometimes children need to learn patience, learn to wait but I discovered that usually their needs were immediate. Even if a problem seemed minor to me, it was monumental to one of my little people. A block tower which took 30 minutes to construct and 30 seconds for a toddler to destroy was equivalent to an adult's business deal that took 3 weeks to establish and a day to fall apart. Brushing off their concerns was often a temptation.

"Oh, it's nothing. Don't over react."

"Not now. I am busy."

"Can't you see that what I am doing is more important?"

To respond to my kids or in the case of any adult, to respond to interruptions to important work, requires surrendering to the duty of the moment. To respond to an interruption often means we must put our agenda to the side for a moment and embrace the agenda of another person. If we refuse the call to love, we miss out on an encounter with the divine because when we serve the least of our brethren, we serve Christ himself.

About the Writer

My husband and I raised 9 children on a hobby farm and discovered fulfilment and joy.The very existence of a joyful mother of nine children seems to confound people. My writing is humourous and heart warming/ thoughtful and thought provoking with a strong current of spirituality running through it.
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By Barbara MacDonald on December 13, 2012 at 02:58 pm

The purest gift we can give another person is to actually listen with all our heart and soul to them...Is better to ask if you can talk later if you are going to be distracted and not really listening...I so agree with this Melanie, well said...:-)

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By melanie jean juneau on December 13, 2012 at 06:20 pm

I just might have to use this-purest gift- love it

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