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Blogging Opened The Door To Writing

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Open the door

Actually I can hardly believe that I feel free enough today to stand up and boldly yell, ” I love writing and I want to help others start writing by encouraging them to blog.”

It took me years to finally decide to start writing again. I had taken a 30 year sabbatical since leaving university to raise 9 children and I just couldn't seem to start. Perhaps I could have started seven years ago when everyone was in school full time but realistically there was simply to much physical work involved in running a household for eleven people and helping with the farm animals and our large vegetable garden.

there is a lot of work on a hobby farm with a family of 11

Instead of writing, I told stories. The Irish side rose to the surface as I entertained family and friends with the latest exploits of my kids and the farm. Their escapades really were legendary because some situations can only occur with the combination of 9 kids and a hobby farm. I told the hilariously true stories of our family in true Irish form, with wry wit and dramatic flourishes. As an oral story teller, I discovered that the tales rose up from deep within me because I had assimilated them and made them my own. In fact, my creations were the products of my right brain; they were imaginative, intuitive and alive. I did not know ahead of time exactly what I would say. I did not memorize a script with my logical left brain. No, the very act of speaking words aloud was part of the creative process. The stories were alive, full of joy and humour and that spirit was infectious.

my adult offspring encouraged me to start writing again.

For years, my children badgered me, “When are you going to start putting our stories down on paper?”

Acquaintances tentatively suggested, “I really think you should start writing.”

Strangers at conferences challenged me, ”You are very articulate, you can think on your feet, have you ever considered writing?”

Once four people approached me and said, “You are a natural. You are called to write. What is holding you back?

I froze inside when I sat down in front of a computer

However, whenever I closeted myself in a room to sit down and write, I froze. I considered writing to be a solitary craft but looking at a blank screen or talking into thin air was a sterile exercise in futility for me. I could not translate the same creative energy that I experienced telling a story verbally to the keyboard. My intuitive, imaginative side stayed buried and my logical intellect wrote boring drivel.

Somehow I heard about the existence of blogs, blogging sites and blogging directories and I snapped to attention. Suddenly, I was thinking up a username, a title for a blog, looking at templates and design and layout. All these activities loosened up my creativity while I sat typing

It was like an invisible barrier slowly melted, allowing my imagination to bubble up in a stream of written words that felt just as exhilarating as my oral tradition. I was excited to start sharing written stories with other people, people who would read them, respond, comment and give me feed back on what I had written. Within weeks, I was no longer an island but part of a community of other writers who had the very same insecurities and problems as I did.

It was spring time in my writer’s soul

At first I felt like I had just stepped off a spaceship into an alien world, I did not know how to do anything. Reading directions on line was useless, I couldn't understand half the words they used, never mind how to follow their directions. I still struggle with uploading, downloading, back linking….Why just right now I managed to delete this article twice, that’s right twice before the article was even finished. Still as I write, there is no save button or draft button. I have no idea why not, either! Worse comes to worse, I will leave to identical sites open on my toolbar in case one gets deleted a third time!

Early on I read that bloggers, on the whole, are supportive and unselfishly helpful, rejoicing in each others success and offering free guidance . Well, I discovered that this statement is true. So if you are tentatively wondering if you will fit in, fear not. If a 57 year-old, computer illiterate, web dummy and green writer can learn while having loads of fun, you can too. Trust me.

the dawn of a new era in my life



About the Writer

My husband and I raised 9 children on a hobby farm and discovered fulfilment and joy.The very existence of a joyful mother of nine children seems to confound people. My writing is humourous and heart warming/ thoughtful and thought provoking with a strong current of spirituality running through it.
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6 comments on Blogging Opened The Door To Writing

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By NurseElaine on October 28, 2012 at 12:23 pm

Though I have read this post, thought I would stop by and say HI!! Have a great Sunday and keep writing!!

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By melanie jean juneau on October 28, 2012 at 12:51 pm

Hi elaine, I will stop by today to read you

thank-you,dear friend

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By Barbara MacDonald on November 03, 2012 at 05:22 pm

Now aren't you glad you jumped into blogging...I know I am...8 years ago, I blogged on Yahoo 360, till they closed it down. You have a natural ability in your writing Melanie...keep writing !!! (sorry I have been missing in action...just very busy) We always can reinvent ourself...:-) and you are doing a great job...

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By melanie jean juneau on November 04, 2012 at 09:50 am

Natural ability to write? Okay, here come the tears again

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By Libdrone on November 05, 2012 at 08:48 pm

It seems to me that for some of us, writing is so connected to who we are....if you took away our blogs and word processors we would probably find an old typewriter and scratch it out on paper. I resolved to publish a post to my blog every day in 2012. I've only made it about 80% of the time so far, though I did publiclcy pledge to do my own personal version of NaNoWriMo and write a blog post every day in November. (So far I am on track with that.) I've come to believe over this year long experiment that for most bloggers it is mostly NOT a good idea to publish a new post every day. But I am thrilled with all of the posts I cranked out and plan to try to edit them into a volume of essays and publish it next year. I really enjoyed your piece.

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By melanie jean juneau on November 05, 2012 at 09:30 pm

I think that you and I are genetically similar. I am addicted to writing Or perhaps the ice dam has melted and years of words just keep bubling up with in me. Like you,I would write with a pencil stub on a paper serviette if nothing else was available. I would love to read all those essays!

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