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Monday, May 21, 2012

The Law of Attraction Is True....I Think...

Why some folks seem luckier than others, or, "fake it till you make it!"

Judging from the lint sticking to my sweater, I would say there is a law of attraction at work in my life. Judging from my bank account, I would say there may be further proof.

The Law of Attraction may sound dopey to a physicist, but then again string theory is pretty counter-intuitive to me. All I know is that happy people seem to have happy things happen to them, and negative people are usually up to their necks in doo. Why?

I believe expectation subtly influences behavior. If you expect to be rejected, your body language will make it happen. If you expect to be well received, it shows in your bearing, and it will happen.

Okay so far. But now the Law of Attraction says that things like abundance, financial security, true love and Pierre Cardin panties can also be yours simply by thinking about them. True? False? Or both? I vote for both.

Take me, for example. I have expected to struggle financially all my life and guess what? I make a good buck but still...the ATM slams shut when I come by. I never expect my wild dreams to succeed. Ergo.... I self published a book last year and so far have sold three copies, one to my cousin. (Hmph! I have twenty cousins. That means nineteen of them are cheap pr*cks!)

I'm not alone. If I had a nickel for every poor chump just like me I'd never work again. But what catches my eye are the blissful folks who go into every venture expecting to succeed. Like Amanda Hocking, who sold a million ebooks because....exactly why was that? Was it because she did everything right (yeah, sure) or because she was lucky (maybe) or because she just thought she would (double maybe)? Perhaps indies who make it big simply expect to do so. Perhaps something about their expectation or their attitude or whatever the Law of Attraction folks would call it, draws a crowd.

In my day job I work with very depressed, negative people. I often tell them to fake it till they make it; act positive with the children/husband/boss/family they actually hate, until they can believe there is something actually positive there. This actually works pretty well with patients, and may have something to do with the Law of Attraction in everyday life.

Basically, this "law" tells you to fake it till you make it. Believe that success is possible, abundance is possible, security is possible, and it just may become the truth of your life.

Food for thought: 1. What harm will it do? 2. I may make better choices. 3. I may be missing opportunities for success, abundance, and security through negativity. 4. I may even find some Pierre Cardin panties in my mailbox!



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7 comments on The Law of Attraction Is True....I Think...

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By Uttam Gill on January 28, 2012 at 09:19 pm

Janey it's an inspiring article...You got a point and I agree with you...Yes no one is going to loose when in a given choice he or she acts...all that negative thoughts which keeps us back many a time deny an opportunity to explore ...to act...to decide...once you decides to do otherwise that’s when, you are going to gain results...No matter what happens…but when success comes it just makes you forget all your failures...

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By neil6 on February 05, 2012 at 07:26 pm

Well written article Janey, that neatly sums up the paradox of the so-called 'Law' of Attraction. The problem is it isn't a 'Law' at all, merely an attitude. Whilst a little positive thinking never did anyone any harm, it is sadly no substitute for natural talent or dedcated hard work.

The harm in this, is that some people blame themselves when their best efforts don't succeed or things don't fall into their laps. As I said in my article- 'What's Wrong With The Self Development industry?'- life contains disappointments and failure will occur. But that has nothing to do with this insidious concept. In my view, never before in the history of thought has so much been made of so little.

Why are people attracted to this bamkrupt notion? It's because it promises an easy path to success. All your wishes and dreams can be fulfilled, with apparently little effort on your part. That is not how life goes. I even see at the top of this page the even worse concept of 'Quantum Jumping' rearing it's head like a garden weed. Believe this and you'll believe anything.

No, the path to understanding, is to study your life and the lives of others. Not nearly as sexy I know, but the truth isn't something we all wish to hear.

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By Janey B on February 05, 2012 at 11:35 pm

@ Neil6: I agree with much of what you say, although I don't find these positive thinking fads quite as insidious as you might be suggesting. I believe that success is based on talent and hard work....AND luck. For each of the successful artists, business people, etc in this world, there are at least 100 others just as talented and hardworking who did not make it. What's the difference? Does attitude play a part. All I know is, that I don't know. :)

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By neil6 on February 06, 2012 at 12:06 am

Thanks Janey and I have no problem with your rejoinder either. I agree luck or circumstance seem to play a part in every life I have stucied. Sure attitude plays a part as well, but the thing is, it may not be enough to get you over the line. You know all those American Idol hopefuls want to win with a vengence.

The insidiousness I see, is that some people may come to regard, what is after all a commonplace idea, as the panacea to all ills. If things go well it must be because I used the technique satisfactorily and if they don't it is also my fault.

My point is there is no 'Law'- only circumstance and talent and hard work and a positive attitude and sometimes it comes up trumps and sometimes it doesn't.

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By Janey B on February 06, 2012 at 12:13 am

I can't disagree. It is kind of revolting when someone gets lucky and attributes it to all their own virtues or some attitude they have that no one else seems to make work for them....

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By Marie-Louise on February 09, 2012 at 10:18 am

I loved this article. I may have loved the comments more though. I agree with both of you. I find that talent and hard work is often not enough and some good attitude throen into the mix makes a world of difference. I do however agree that attitude alone can only get you so far. @neil6, your article is next on my reading list. Thank you again Janey for sharing this thought with us.

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By Janey B on February 09, 2012 at 03:47 pm

@ Marie-Louise, thanks! :)

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