We’ve all heard this line before, “You should marry your best friend, the one who knows you best.” It always sounds good, appeals to many and makes lots of sense while choosing a mate or life partner. However,really liking a person versus being in love with them are too very different scenarios. And in my opinion, you should always marry the latter of the two.
Dating, and hanging out with someone you feel completely comfortable around, laugh often with, even enjoy sharing your most intimate secrets during those long walks in the park is something special to behold; almost rare in today’s... Read More
As someone who loves psychology and enjoys observing the intricacies of human behavior, it amazes me how much the art of dating has changed.
I was raised in the 70's and 80's; a time when old fashioned manners still applied. An era when going on a date meant giving an actual face-to-face invitation to the object of your affections, holding the door open as she left your car or approached a doorway, grasping her hand while crossing the street, promptly picking her up at home right on time, and thanking her the next day with a courteous phone call. It was a time when being courteous,... Read More
I recently wrote an article discussing what to do after the object of your affections crushes your heart. Now, I'm going to dive in and talk about ways of seeing the warning signs before things get to this point; to look for the character flaws, psychological traits and common social behaviors of women likely to be loose and promiscuous. Although this article is written about women, it also easily applies toward men.
No matter how you meet the women you date, you always approach the beginning of each relationship with high hopes, especially if you're one whose serious about becoming... Read More
The tides are changing when it comes to women getting married. No longer are the traditions of June Clever, Carol Brady, Debra Ramone (Everybody Loves Raymond), and other housewives with children thought of as the norm. No one wants fancy wedding cards or fairy tale wedding. What was once considered the ideal lifestyle and dream of girls growing up everywhere has now become more of an option rather than an individual mandate. But, for men still looking for one who'll say, "I Do" hope is still alive and well, you just have to learn to play the game.
I know a few women who've... Read More
Perhaps itz common sense dat if yo ass aint bustin time together yo' relationshizzle wit yo' spouse or dope other may be jeapordized. Y'all KNOW dat shit, muthafucka! Technologies like fuckin Twizzle, Facebizzle, n' LinkedIn make it possible though ta keep up wit yo' partner much mo' than eva before, so a crew outtaUniversitizzle of Oxfordz Internizzle Institutewanted ta peep whether diverse communications channels, beyond email n' texting, strengthened relationshizzle tizzles up in tha digital era.
What he found is dat too much rappin' all up in too nuff different channels could hurt... Read More
In every relationship, no matter how many times you say "I Love You," how often the chemistry ignites while on the dance floor or in the bedroom, or how much you desire continuing into eternal bliss, one person always feels stronger for the other. Sometimes though, when a break-up is imminent, the balance of affection is so heavily tipped in the other person's corner you feel hesitant to let them go because of an unwillingness to hurt their feelings or even leaving yourself alone. However, doing them the favor by permanently saying "goodbye" is the most honorable thing to do, both for... Read More
Love is a trap. When it appears, we see only its light, not its shadows. -Paulo Coelho.
Some are ready to give even their life in the name of Love, pity it’s so because I always thought of it as something meant to give people a long happy life rather than a sad premature end. Thinking that there is only one love in life is the biggest mistake one can ever make. Love is only an emotion like anger, hate or joy and so it should be understood as such. It is never above one’s own life, it is only a medium through which we seek for happiness in life. It is a selfish feeling, a feeling which... Read More
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cc flog can't bear either Jim. But we do don't we? :>)