Many singles today are insecure and struggle with being the chooser. Instead, they submissively let others make the choices. Being the chooser means taking the initiative and responsibility for your outcomes by seeking to create what you want in your life and relationships.
As a Chooser, you are aware that you always have choices and are never stuck but many singles are and here the top reasons why:
1. Lack of self-esteem and self-worth
Too many people suffer from low self-esteem and self-worth. These are learned attitudes that come from our earliest relationships and... Read More
We all want an amazing love relationship, yet in today’s dating scene it is harder than ever to find the love of your life. Does this scenario sound familiar? You meet that special person you really like. You go out on a few dates and think there may be a real connection there for you. Then you discover that the person is not a good fit. What a disappointment!
And what did you get in return? More wasted time and energy, but what if you could find out in about 5 minutes if a person has the potential to be the love of your life?
Find Out in 5 Minutes
There are a series... Read More
Do you take the initiative to go and get what you want? Or do you find yourself reacting to people and situations? Perhaps you have been conditioned to please others, or never received encouragement to take risks. Maybe you’re a person who feels powerless about influencing your outcomes so you let other people in your life make all the choices. You may be so afraid of failure that you don’t even try.
There is a better way. Be the chooser. When you become the chooser something amazing happens in your life: you take initiative and responsibility for your outcomes. You are in charge... Read More
Dear Coach Scott:
Why do I need the support of a community to find the love of my life? I am completely focused on finding my life partner and I don't need anyone else's help.
The only problem I seem to be having is that I do not know where to meet potential partners. So what that means is that I am not having luck in finding prospective partners. Where are they? Do you have any suggestions?
Focused On Finding My Life Partner
Before I answer your questions, I need share something with you. You are in one of the most common traps that singles... Read More
Do you like the way the singles dating scene works today? If you ask most singles, they don’t. The old ways of dating just aren’t effective anymore. Why not? What is going on?
When I was in the dating scene, I remembered that I had a need to be happy. I was also afraid of being alone for the rest of my life.
Sounds simple and innocent, doesn’t it?
While my goal was to be happy in my relationships, I didn’t know how. As a result, I mostly stumbled along the dating scene and made a lot of poor relationship choices that left me in some dating traps and feeling unhappy,... Read More
Sooner or later, while getting to know someone for the purpose of forming a romantic relationship, the subject of politics will eventually boil to the surface. You'll be sharing that bag of buttered popcorn waiting for a movie to start, chit chatting in a restaurant looking forward to your favorite meals to be served, watching the news, or lying in bed when all of a sudden sloppy smiles appear, or explosive hair-pulling begins making the gloves fly off while discussing the latest political headlines. After all politics, and probably religion are two of the most debated subjects we'll... Read More
When economic times are challenging and you live in a city like NY where things aren't cheap, it is logical that people need to figure out creative solutions to make ends meet. Some people are turning to alternative (m)eating lifestyles. Given the choice between cutting down on eating at nice restaurants, there are people that turn to dating sites to find men that will pick up the tab.
One women came forward and told Business Insider that she subsidises her $45k annual salary with free dinners from gracious men whom she hooks up with on the dating site Match.com.
The 23-year-old... Read More
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